Thursday, December 6, 2007

Sex Is Important!!!!

I had an epiphany last night.... It was about men and women and our roles in sex. After talking to a handful of people (men and women) i've realized that our roles in sex have reversed. It used to be that men were the aggressors and wanted sex all of the time..... or so we were taught. But now women are the ones (the aggressors) who want sex. Not men (making men passive). Most men could live without sex and be just fine. But WHY? Is it because they are bored of it? or that they see it as a waste of time?
If men see sex as a waste of time, then women feel like their boyfriends, husbands, lovers ect... dont find them attractive, or dont love them.
when did good old fashioned bone rattling sex go out the window? and why?
if we as a society can indulge ourselves in food, porn, and all of the unnecessary useless things that we will never use, then why cant we indulge in physical pleasure? Its good for you. Its my belief that sex is a necessary way to maintain a healthy relationship. Its good for your soul, your spirit, and your health. Sex is trusting the one you love with your body.

so for all of you guys out there who think that sex isnt important..... maybe this will make you think twice!

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

my random thoughts......

What we wear is a very big part of who we are. I say this because its true. Its how we decide our mood for the day. Its how we carry ourselves, and its how we present ourselves to the people we just meet. It plays a very important role in our everyday lives.